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154. Find Your Flirt Style & Feel Confident AF

154. Find Your Flirt Style & Feel Confident AF

Time: 1:05:39
This week we're learning how to flirt and feel confident AF while we do it. Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach, is here to spill all his flirting secrets and give us the actionable tips we've been waiting for. We cover:
A CLEAR definition of what flirting is
The 4 main flirty styles and how to find your personal flirting style
What we're getting WRONG when it comes to flirting
What to do if you're shy or awkward
Benjamin's flirting framework
How to enhance your verbal flirting game
Using your body to flirt
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Episode ID: 1000635655863
GUID: 724637f2-88e0-11ee-b143-337e6bc8d0ce
Release Date: 11/22/2023, 3:00:00 AM

Description

Welcome to Honeydew Me, a podcast that goes into the bedroom and beyond with your hosts Emma Norman and Cass Anderson. We believe that everyone deserves to have great sex, feel good in their bodies and love themselves and while we may not be experts, our guests are. Join us as we explore the ins and outs of sex, bodies, confidence, and all those burning questions you've been dying to get answered.

Apple Podcasts: Customer Reviews

There’s a lot here

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JuanMotie
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2023-10-20
One of my fav podcasts…. Educational, entertaining, eventful. These Grrrrllls make you feel comfortable and are very personable

I AM OBSESSED !!!

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baileyyyyboooo
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2023-08-17
If I could leave every single emoji that they say after the episode, I would. I binge every single episode and I am in love with it! I have learned so many things from stuff I had no clue about to stuff about what’s not talked about with doctors. This podcast is my top favorite! These ladies are hilarious, open books who make it easier for woman like me to be confident! 10/10!🩷

Incredible!

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Dan1777999877
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2023-04-19
Honeydew Me is seriously incredible. Every episode will make you laugh and learn all at once. The conversations they’re having on this show are seriously important, and this is the education we all need!

Phenomenal, Outstanding, Sex-Positive Show!!

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Sportsenthusiast35
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2023-03-17
This show is phenomenal!! You all are funny as anything to listen to—extremely down-to-earth as well. (Thank you again for e-mailing me back when I’d written you, which was a long time ago.) I’ve learned a ton!! As always, keep up the outstanding work!! It’s very much appreciated!!

The outros are my fave

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PeaceLoveSarahOx
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2023-03-17
Well in your latest episode the first name you called out for not leaving a review was Sarah to here I am…
You guys are wonderful. I started listening to your podcast when you were at maybe 40 episodes. Binge listened to them all. Been listening religiously every week since then. It’s like chatting with my two favorite friends and I love every minute of it.
Also the best content is in the outros 👌🏼💋

Has Everything I Need to Learn

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Pengy_0612
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2023-02-10
Updated review:
This is still a wonderful sex positive no shame podcast for beginners- intermediate. I started out knowing quite a bit more in the sex world when I first started listening. But that doesn't change the fact that every episode I learn something new. Some question or fact will pop up and I'll be like"good to know!" I found that as I furthered listened to this podcast I've really started to see a lot of improvement in these lovely ladies! They still giggle, but it's a lot more refined. They can go through a few topics without a fit and I feel it really furthers this podcast in progressiveness in curiosity. As they give reviews and stories of their first different attempts at their honey-do lists it really helps the listener view these two as friends that are having meaningful conversations and making it a safe place for all kinks. I still have a qualm with sound quality. It used to be low but now the range really varies. Sometimes it's too loud and sometimes it's still mumbly. I'm not sure how you fix that, maybe editing?
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This is a fantastic podcast. It gives me all the info I need on all topics related to body and sex. I do wish there'd be a bit less giggling but I get that when people are nervous that is a defense mechanism, it just gets annoying after a while. I feel like some of the guests kind of just sit there like "yes you can be funny, but I want to discuss this like adults and not have a giggle fit every 5 minutes." Be a little more confident in the question. Everyone has sex, no need to be shy. The other reason I gave it 1 star shy of a full 5 is because of the audio quality. I'm at episode 40 and I still find myself straining to understand what they're saying because it sounds mumbled or the podcast volume is too low. I have my iphone set to the highest maxed out setting for volume and wear ear plugs. But I still can't always hear everything.

Awesome podcast

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Bigdaddy69991
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2023-01-25
Great show🥜🥜lol

Amazing Podcast

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AsteriaDM
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2023-01-23
I have been listening for almost a year and absolutely love it! My self confidence has been boosted and I’m more comfortable in the sex department from all their advice! I absolutely adore Cass and Emma. I finally ordered some merch and I can’t wait to represent them! 💞

Love this!

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happyrosebud91
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2022-11-03
I really liked this recent episode about porn. It was super helpful for my partner and I. I’m gonna subscribe now.

Much love ❤️

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1147pauley
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2022-09-21
Just one of the most enjoyable podcasts available. I have a huge respect for the women in their age cohort. They make the subject matter relatable and accessible. Love you both 😘

I take notes on this podcast!

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Maggiemmmmmmmm
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2022-09-13
For the first time in my 5+ year history of listening to podcasts, I paused the ep, got out my notebook and took notes. The expert they had on the episode was Victoria Albina, and she explained very difficult concepts so effortlessly and accessibly. I’m a new subscriber and I can’t wait to learn more and live more mindfully, confidently, and peacefully. Thank you!!!!

absolutely love these two

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allisonmoore20
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2022-08-09
i have been loving this podcast for a few months now and i just felt the need to write a review. i cant recommend this podcast enough. i tell all my friends about it. you two create such a safe, informative space. love you both, keep doing what you’re doing!!! 💖👯‍♀️

Highly Sensitive

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Sarahpie91
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2022-07-27
Thank you for this amazing episode! I felt so seen and had my husband listen as well. I love the variety of topics, your honesty and vibe together. I also love the intro music!! I hope the pod can reach more people because the info is so needed. Thanks for all you do!

Slay besties

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Baileygalewaler
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2022-07-20
Love this pod! They have helped me feel so confident with my sexuality and have taught me so many things. I love their topics/discussions, plus the guests! Recommend them to everyone, can’t get enough.

Like being in on the cool kids conversation

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phoenix-joli
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2022-07-09
Found this show and immediately binged the episodes. These two have such great energy and they bring curiosity EVERYWHERE- I love that they don’t shy away from going deep.

💡💡💡💡

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pandiezashley
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2022-06-14
I am obsessed with this show. I absolutely love it, and it fills a serious void in starting the conversations about sex. I considered my self more sex savvy then the average bear; but this podcast approaches sex from foundational level with the focus on a holistic approach, instead of just the mechanics. Cass and Emma’s complete transparency about their own sex-capades, allows them and their guests to address real world examples and put their advice in context.
I had no idea the amount of stigma and shame about sex that has been influencing my thought and interaction.
The Honeydew Me has taught me to question my idea of “normal sex” and then helped me explore and my understanding of pleasure, kinks, my idea of sexuality, my relationship with my body and myself, fear, and shame. All while making me laugh out loud, or chuckle and nod my head in agreement.
This podcast has literally changed my life and my entire relationship with sex. It has changed the way I talk about sex, when I talk with my partner, friend, and even my family. It has helped heal my relationship with my body and love it more then I can ever remember. Thank you ladies for all that you do!

Great advice!!

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Flipataco
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2022-05-06
I love this podcast! I listened to their blow job episode and did some of the things discussed and my boyfriend loved them. He even gave me a shirt that said “good head” I know weird, but it’s a cute gift hahaha

💦💦💦 awesome time

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Solomon Abrams
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2022-05-04
I met Shae recently at the Exxxotica Expo in Chicago. She was such a delight to meet. I took her suggestion and listened to this podcast and I must admit I enjoyed it😊😊 As a penis owner i learned a few-okay more than a few things and couldn’t help but chuckle at the giggly moments. You ladies rock!

Fun flirty and interesting podcast!

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lulu012
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2022-05-03
Love the content. Hosts do a great job of bringing on professionals and keeping engaging conversation throughout each episode. The only draw back is the sound quality- you will likely have to turn your volume up and down many times in one podcast to hear different guests and avoid blasting your ears with the hosts laughs. Definitely worth listening to regardless of sound though!

Amazing pod, it’s a must listen!

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eVeRyOnE gEt ThIs ApP!
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2022-04-23
Emma and cas are a godsend that bring in amazing guests to discuss sexual health, positivity and break down the nuances of sex in our times. They are hilarious to listen to and do a great job on inspiring!

Emma and Cass are a godsend 🙏👼🙌

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ssam0
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2022-04-21
This podcast is one of the best sex and relationship podcasts I’ve found! Great educational content on a wide variety of topics.

Must listen!

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Obvioushley
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2022-03-06
My best friend put me on to this podcast and I love it! Really makes me think and I love the homework at the end of the podcast. The chemistry is great with these chicks too!

LOVE this podcast

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leahmarty
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2022-02-20
I’ve been going through a horrible breakup and these podcasts have saved me from feeling terribly lonely and not to mention make me laugh.

🧼🧼🧼

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Misskellydee
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2022-02-10
These episodes are like big sister/best friend advice I’ve always wanted. Love the expert + personal candid talk. Learning and taking notes 😂

LOVE

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BBokkkkk
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2022-01-26
I didn’t like podcasts much before but after listening to this, I’m binging them. SO uplifting and transparent. I genuinely feel like I’m spending time with girlfriends and have much needed conversations with no stigma. This is the best!

Best sex podcast

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sarah ohlde
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2022-01-24
I love listening to honeydew me! It’s like call her daddy but not and I actually feel like I’ve gained practical and beneficial knowledge after each episode.

🦄🦄🦄

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missrachelellin
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2022-01-21
love love these episodes, love sending these to my friends

Hooked so fast

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TheHypeIsDead
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2022-01-20
omg! I am an educational, sexual gal and these two ladies hooked me after one episode . New listener and here to stay!

A-MAZING

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Magison2248
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2022-01-18
I’ve listened to 6 episodes now and I absolutely love it. I’ve learned so many new things and have had questions answered. I love how I can learn anything and everything about sex without feeling shame or guilt. Love this podcast and I love these ladies I would do anything for them. 💕

Best podcast for women in 20’s!

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clarissasophia3
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2022-01-16
I’ve listened to about 3-4 episodes now & they all were packed with so much helpful & useful information regarding sex & several different aspects that come with it! Not to mention Emma & Cass are the most hilarious women so they make their conversations so engaging & fun to listen to. 10/10 recommend!

Episode 61

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Cassassy
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2022-01-12
As a dietitian I love this episode! So interesting and something not discussed in the nutrition world enough!

I love this podcast

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Virginialoving
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2022-01-12
I just started listening and I love it. I enjoy both of the host and guest and find myself laughing with them. Each episode has something for everyone and I get excited for the homework’s each week.

Love !!!

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mollymae250
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2022-01-10
It’s so refreshing to hear y’all talk about real, tangible things we can incorporate into our lives for more love + pleasure for everyone !!

Love!!

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sararaek
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2022-01-05
Your podcast is so good, I love hearing normal things talked about normally! This is such a blessing to listen too!

Love this podcast

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just here for the free shirt
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2022-01-05
So glad to have found this podcast. Educational, funny, and entertaining…it’s fantastic!

Stupid

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0possum94
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2022-01-04
And mind numbing

Love this podcast!

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queenLizzybeeeee
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2022-01-03
Very educational! Being someone who grew up with sex being a taboo subject this has really helped me feel like it’s okay to be expressive about these things and has answered many of my questions!

So Relatable!

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manisOH
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2022-01-01
Stumbled across this podcast via TikTok and so glad I did. The hosts are down to earth women I feel like I could be friends with. They don’t pretend to know all the answers and ask the questions real women want to know. The advice is useable and realistic. I’m hooked. 🦄

love it!

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H8r💜r
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2021-12-22
i’ve been binge listening in the car and while doing stuff from my to-do list. it’s a little confusing because their voices sound the same to me, so idk who’s taking most of the time, but it doesn’t keep me from really enjoying it.

Always rolling!

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Rpweiler
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2021-11-18
Found you two a couple weeks ago and have been catching up from the beginning (13 in at this point). You both are amazing and hilarious together. I’ve learned a ton, too! Keep it going!
Adding to this review after the return of Susan Bratton. You two are amazing and have some really awesome people on your podcast. As a male who listens to this show, I’ve learned so much and have incorporated a lot into my sex life with my partner. 🦄🦄

Amazing

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Lissjoy
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2021-11-13
I listen to many podcasts and this one is a must listen. These girls are so hilarious and relatable. I really like how HONEST they are about their sexual journeys and feel like they are learning and figuring it out with the rest of us. The discussions with the expert guests are always great and informative. Even the ads on Honeydew Me are entertaining and make me laugh out loud. 😂

The best podcast

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Sineadck
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2021-11-05
So entertaining, funny, and educational! It’s my favorite podcast. Do yourself a favor and listen!

AHMAZINGGG

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Peytonr12
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2021-11-04
These girls are so open and raw! 💕🥰This has made me so much more confident in my body and with my boyfriend! I would recommend this to any girl or guy who wants to learn more about themselves and what they like in the bed!

1000% yes

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madcakes99
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2021-11-03
So basically I started listening about 2 months ago and now I feel as if I am literally bff’s with these gals. They are funny, open, honest...like what more could you ask for?? I’ve been through some rough patches sexually so this has been a game changer for me. After I finish listening I usually text my boyfriend saying something along the lines of “guess what we’re trying next...” anyways, cheers honey!!! Love ya’ll & everyone needs to go listen 💗💗💗

💗💖💗

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katjune26
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2021-09-25
the best!! makes me feel so confident!!

I love this podcast!

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Facebook user number one
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2021-09-24
I came here to be more comfortable with sex, and I stayed for the hilarious narratives and sexy information ♥️👏

love !!

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kaylasue__
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2021-09-23
i absolutely love this podcast !! emma and cass do such an amazing job creating a safe space and talk about and listen to these topics ! this podcast has helped me open up so much 🥰

Relatable, Informative, and so fun!

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Stacie Cakes
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2021-09-22
I have a pretty big rotation of podcasts that I listen to, but every time there’s a new Honeydew Me episode, I listen immediately. I love all of the different topics and the guests they bring in for each one. I especially love that the girls go out and try things they learn from the guests and then give us their feedback. I would definitely recommend this podcast and do so with a lot of my friends.

My fav podcast

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Taecla
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2021-09-19
These girls keep it SO REAL! i listen to a lot of pods, but the authenticity of Emma and Cass really shines through in every episode. From hot sex tips to personal enlightenment and growth… every episode resonates! Thanks for making me feel like i’m listening to my besties talk!

Can’t get enough!!!

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cassbjack
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2021-09-17
Lovelovelove HoneyDewMe!!! These ladies give the stage to some awesome people and o have learned so much about how to be confident, sexual wellness, and fun new things. Highly recommend!